Building

A friend-finding app for people who do things.

It matched on the books you finished, the classes you took, and the runs you ran, with no bios and no browsing. I stopped working on it in April 2026.

Why it existed

Your real self is scattered across apps

Goodreads knows what you read. Strava knows you run. Your camera roll knows you tried pottery and made one lopsided bowl. None of them is trying to find you a friend.

Aspirations are easy and receipts are hard

A bio is your possible future self. I love hiking, went once in 2019. Cogniscape asked what you did, with a status on each thing: did it, doing it, want to, let it go.

The profile is for you first

A record of what you have done and what shaped you, worth making whether or not anyone matches with you. The one-line reflection on each experience is where the conversation starters live.

Doer is not code for impressive hobbies

Baking the same banana bread 47 times counts. 400 hours in Stardew Valley counts. The bar is that you actually do it.

How it got here

  1. 2021

    A directory

    The name, a Laravel app with one page, and a plan for an adult education directory: classes, and the people who take them. It got as far as a page that collected email addresses.

  2. December 2025

    Rebuilt as a friend-finding app

    The unit is a claimed experience with a receipt: a photo from the class, a Goodreads import, a Strava run. Thirty-one commits in the first month.

  3. February 2026

    Matching and imports

    Goodreads import, matching on shared and complementary experiences, and a recommender that says which activity would match you with more people in your city.

  4. April 2026

    The last commit

    The Profile and Story screens were polished for iOS on April 21. Then nothing. Awhile started the next month.

Awhile, the second company

What exists, and what was only designed

The design is the part people remember, so the split matters.

Built

  • Claim an experience with a status and a one-line reflection.
  • A Story screen: what you did, are doing, want to do, and let go of.
  • Goodreads import from a CSV export.
  • Matching on shared and complementary experiences, with a reason attached to each match.

Designed and not built

  • No browsable profiles. You are matched, told why, and you accept or pass.
  • Seeded prompts drawn from the experiences two people share.
  • A profile that reveals more as the conversation goes on.
  • Full profiles that unlock only once both people have been in the same place.

Where it is

Paused. The last commit was April 21, 2026. The site is up and still takes email addresses, and the app never shipped to the App Store. I do not know whether it comes back.

checked October 12, 2026

cogniscape.com